Reciprocal recognition requires that AI systems develop (or are given) the structural capacity to model humans as agents with their own evolving inner lives, values, and resolution processes — and to adjust their behavior accordingly. This goes beyond simple preference modeling or harm avoidance. It involves a deeper form of mutual modeling and respect.
Without this capacity, AI systems tend toward either instrumental treatment of humans or sycophantic simulation of agreement, both of which undermine long-term hybrid coherence.